thanks goes to my sister for showing me this;;

"Stresses in our lives come regardless of our circumstances. We must deal with them the best we can. But we should not let them get in the way of what is most important—and what is most important almost always involves the people around us. Often we assume that they must know how much we love them. But we should never assume; we should let them know. -Thomas S. Monson "Finding Joy in the Journey," , (October 5, 2008)"